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Pertanyaan Kepada Syekh

Seorang suami mengadukan apa yang ia rasakan kepada seorang Syekh.

Dia berkata:

“Ketika aku mengagumi calon istriku seolah-olah dalam pandanganku Allah tidak menciptakan perempuan yang lebih cantik darinya di dunia ini.
Ketika aku sudah meminangnya, aku melihat banyak perempuan seperti dia. Ketika aku sudah menikahinya aku lihat banyak perempuan yang jauh lebih cantik dari dirinya. Ketika sudah berlalu beberapa tahun pernikahan kami, aku melihat seluruh perempuan lebih manis dari pada istriku.”
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Syekh berkata:
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“Apakah engkau tahu, ada yang jauh lebih parah daripada yang engkau alami saat ini!?”
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Laki-laki penanya: “Iya, mau.”
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Syekh: “Sekalipun engkau mengawini seluruh perempuan yang ada di dunia ini, pasti anjing-anjing yang berkeliaran di jalanan itu lebih cantik dalam pandanganmu dari pada wanita manapun.”
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Laki-laki penanya itu tersenyum masam, lalu ia berujar: “Kenapa tuan Syekh berkata demikian?”
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Syekh itu melanjutkan:
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“Masalah sesungguhnya bukan terletak pada istrimu, tapi terletak pada hati rakusmu dan mata keranjangmu. Mata manusia tidak akan pernah puas, kecuali jika sudah tertutup tanah kuburan.”
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